A few days ago, I and my friend were
discussing denial. What is denial? Denial, if you don't know, is completely
avoiding a situation or ignoring the inevitable and believing that it is not
there. Now, what do you think about denial? Obviously, you will think that it
is not a trait worth cultivating. But what if I told you that in many situation
utter and unreasonable denial is the best strategy by far, constantly ignoring
the inevitable like it will never happen. Surprised? Well you should, as from
the very beginning we are told to tackle problems upfront and never to avoid it
and it is the right decision in most cases, but unfortunately not all.
Can you think of one case were denial is
the best strategy? In fact, the best one is essential for our function and
embedded so well in our psych that it is hard to identify it. Any guess? Well
it is the denial of death. Without denial every man (and woman) on the earth
will be thinking about death, which is inevitable, and what to do about it. The
reason we don’t do that and are able to engage in perfunctory activities is
that we are constantly ignoring that fact. We know we are going to die, but
most of the time in our subconscious we like to believe that we will leave for
ever. This denial let us function, discover, invent and succeed.
Many of you may find the example of death
too extreme, as death is inevitable and it does not seem that we can solve it
ever (don’t confuse the denial of death here with the desire of elongated life,
with fear of death it doesn’t matter whether you die in a year, hundred years,
thousand years or at the doom of mankind). But what about the problems which
are very much evitable and can be avoided with careful planning? Is it ever
better to avoid them? Matter of fact, it is in some cases, and that brings us
to Ostrich Algorithm.
This is a good strategy, Seriously !
After all his discussion, if you still
don’t want to believe that in many cases denial is good, than you are in state
of denial; but if that encourages you to tackle any problem upfront and makes you enthusiastic, remain in
that denial, for denial is good.
*In computer science deadlock refers to the
situation were two processes are waiting for resources held by each other. Like
process A is holding resource x and waiting for resource y, while process B is
holding y and waiting for x. Both the processes are stuck in a perpetual
waiting. This also applies to more than two processes.
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